Finding the perfect gift for a remarkable woman in your life can be challenging, particularly when they deserve the world. Whether you’re looking for gift ideas for your partner, mother, sister or friend, we recommend honing in on what she really wants. The perfect present could be something that sparks joy, caters to her hobbies, or is something she wouldn’t typically treat herself to.
If the lady in your life is sentimental, gifting her personalised jewellery or a custom-made photo book will speak volumes. If she values home comforts, an affordable luxury like a scented candle will bring her joy. Or perhaps she loves adventure, in which case planning a weekend getaway or booking a thrill-seeking experience like hot air ballooning will capture her heart.
So, whether you’re shopping for the perfect Christmas prezzie to pop under the tree, or you need a present for a birthday, anniversary, Valentine’s Day or Mother’s Day, consult our guide to the best gifts for her.
2024’s best gifts for women

01
A bespoke photo book
Photo Book, from $130 at MILK Books
Best for: Those celebrating a significant milestone
A custom-made photo book is a reminder of precious memories and doubles as a stylish coffee table accent.
If the photo book is a gift for your girlfriend or partner, it’s a wonderful way to immortalise your love story through pictures from date nights and relationship milestones.
A bespoke photo book is also the perfect keepsake for marking significant events in her life, such as the birth of a child, an engagement, or graduation.
Shop here:
- From $130 at MILK Books
- From $44.99 at VistaPrint
- From $65 at Etsy

02
A romantic getaway or thrill-seeking adventure
Hot Air Ballooning, from $395 at Red Balloon
Best for: People who prefer experiences over material possessions
Does she have an inclination for adventure or value quality time with loved ones? If so, she’ll appreciate a spontaneous weekend getaway or an experience like wine tasting or hot air ballooning. After all, there’s nothing better than the excitement of being whisked away to an unknown destination — although if she loves planning, you may want to let her in on the surprise.
Book here:
- Adventure experiences, from $95 at Red Balloon
- Food and wine experiences, from $35 at Red Balloon
- Accommodation at Red Balloon, Booking.com and Airbnb

03
Beauty & fragrance gift sets
The Evening Ritual Trio, $67 at Emma Lewisham
Best for: Self-care enthusiasts who love to be pampered
If she loves a pampering skincare routine or she’s always experimenting with makeup, a beauty gift set will allow her to try new products and indulge in some well-deserved ‘me-time’.
If she rarely treats herself to perfume, gifting her fragrance is another way to make her feel special.
Shop here:
- The Evening Ritual Trio, $67 at Emma Lewisham
- The Essentials, $153 at Emma Lewisham
- Water Bank Blue Hyaluronic Hydration Set, $78 at Sephora
- Jasmine & Magnolia Fragrance Gift Bag Set, $39.95 at Circa
- Pleasures In The Moment Fragrance Set, $161 at Estée Lauder

04
Wall art
November Warmth, $185 at Shop Your Home and Garden
Best for: People who take pride in decorating their living spaces
Give her the gift of wall art — whether a photograph of her favourite New Zealand destination or a print reflecting her interior style. You’ll show her you understand her deeply; and each time she admires her art, she’ll think of you.
Shop here:
- Landscape and nature art, from $34 at Shop Your Home and Garden
- Photography art, from $33 at Shop Your Home and Garden
- Abstract art, from $41 at Shop Your Home and Garden
- Floral & botanical art, from $24 at Shop Your Home and Garden

05
Personalised Jewellery
Letter necklace, $248 at Mejuri
Best for: Those who cherish sentimental keepsakes
Jewellery is a timeless gift; when personalised, it’s even more special.
Whether you purchase a necklace adorned with her birthstone or initial charms, or a bracelet engraved with a significant date or meaningful words, you’re gifting her an everlasting symbol of your bond.
Shop here:
- Letter charms and chains, from $98 at Mejuri
- Little letter necklaces and bracelets, from $68, at SOPHIE store
- Zodiac and initial jewellery, from $26 at Lovisa

06
Food hampers & chocolate gift boxes
The Delightful Week Fruit Basket, $174.95 at Paddock to Pantry
Best for: Gourmet foodies and dessert enthusiasts
If she’s a foodie, partial to sweet treats, or appreciates the finer things in life, a gift box filled with premium chocolates or gourmet delicacies is the way to her heart.
You could even gift her a case of her favourite wine varietal, particularly if she’s hard to please or you’re looking to impress.
Shop here:
- Tea gift packs, from $15 at T2
- Gift baskets, from $74.95 at Paddock to Pantry
- Cookie gift boxes, from $29.95 at Hello and Cookie
- Wine cases, from $168 at Laithwaites

07
Scented candles and room fragrances
Twist Candle, $71.98 at Shop Your Home and Garden
Best for: Homebodies who value quiet time
Does she love spending a night at home curled up on the couch, getting lost in a book, or relaxing in the bath? For those who value solitude, an affordable luxury like a scented candle or room fragrance is an excellent gift idea. To enrich her relaxation, we recommend selecting a soothing lavender, warming vanilla or invigorating citrus scent.
Shop here:
- From $14 at Shop Your Home and Garden
- From $20 at Sephora
- From $19.95 at Circa
- From $25.95 at Glasshouse Fragrances

08
A deliciously relaxing spa treatment
Skin treatments, from $90 through Dermalogica
Best for: The caregiver always thinking of others
If you’re buying for someone who gives all their energy to others and never takes time for herself, don’t underestimate the value of an hour or two of pampering. Whether it be a powerful clinical facial to prep her skin for holiday season soirées, or a relaxing hot stone massage to work out kinks and knots from the year, a spa treatment is a fabulous gift for anyone.
If she wants to enter the new year fresh and glowing, the Dermalogica Proskin 30-minute and 60-minute treatments include exfoliation, deep serum treatments and add-ons like hydra dermabrasion and LED therapy.
Shop here:
- Proskin skin treatments, from $90 through Dermalogica
- Spa and wellness experiences, from $14 at Red Balloon

09
Flower bouquet delivery
Blush Hat Box, from $125 at The Wild Rose
Best for: The woman who has everything
If she appreciates romantic gestures or public displays of affection, she’ll adore a surprise flower bouquet delivery. Send her a bunch of her favourite blooms or an arrangement featuring her favourite colours to brighten her day.
Shop here:
- Fresh flowers and flower gift boxes, from $45 at The Wild Rose
- Flower gift boxes, from $55 at The Gift Shop
What are some popular gift ideas for women?
Typically, women value gifts that resonate with their personal tastes and interests. Popular ideas for gifts for her include jewellery, affordable luxuries like candles, fragrances and beauty products, and gourmet treats. The secret to a memorable gift lies in its ability to demonstrate your deep understanding and appreciation of who she is.
What should I buy my girlfriend or wife to make her feel special?
To make your girlfriend or wife feel truly special, give her something that reflects her preferred love language, whether that’s an act of service, a gift, or quality time. Depending on what makes her feel valued, you could consider surprising her with a weekend staycation, gifting her jewellery or sending her a beautiful flower bouquet.
What can I give as a gift for a woman who has it all or is hard to buy for?
If she’s hard to buy for, consider a truly unique gift like personalised jewellery or a custom-made photo book. Alternatively, planning a surprise adventure or holiday getaway is a way to create unforgettable memories while showing how much you care.
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